May 18, 2013

Preschool Birthday Party

So Kaleb's third birthday is almost here. Since it lands on Memorial Day, he'll be having his birthday party in school next Friday. A birthday party at preschool from my understanding translates to small yummy treats for the kids that get to eat midday and goody bags. Many birthdays have come and gone in Kaleb's small class of fourteen students this year, so I already knew the drill.

I started trying to brainstorm cake, goody bags with toys and candy and..... then I realized I hate goody bags. Parents spend a lot on a bag filled with candy, which for the most part is more choking hazard than treat. Then of course there's all the toys that come with it. The yo-yo that doesn't work, the small erasers that look edible but aren't, the waxy crayons that don't mark paper, etc. etc.

I didn't want to spend a lot of money and I definitely didn't want to spend a lot of money on something that would go straight into the trash. Which is where most items in Kaleb's goody bags end up once he forgets about them. I finally found something perfect, books! Who doesn't love books? Problem is most books are expensive, especially board books. Then I remembered a dollar store by us sometimes has board books. Selection changes all the time, but I went to try to hunt some down.

I was able to find cute Sesame Street board books which are age appropriate. Mix and maxed books on numbers, alphabet, shapes and body parts. At home I checked out my stash of extra arts and crafts supply. I still had a package of 24 containers of play-doh that hadn't been opened. I bought it last years summer clearance at Target at 90% off. Perfect! I printed out some cutesy labels I made for the party favors and some decor. We'll be buying 2 dozen mini red velvet cupcakes at Sam's Club. And that's everything. For under $20 Kaleb's preschool party now has a cute theme that he'll love, useful favors for each child that won't go straight to the trash and a very yummy treat to eat in the classroom. I feel accomplished.



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May 12, 2013

#kalebmonster brought me tea for mothers day. Daddy asked for tea and Kaleb said "no, mama's day!"



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#kalebmonster Happy Mother's Day to all the mommys out there.



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May 11, 2013

#kalebmonster and mommy swimming about



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May 10, 2013

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May 8, 2013

One Down, Two More to Go

I have a severe case of pregnancy brain these days, so excuse the incredibly random posts to come. My brain can't seem to focus on one topic for too long. I haven't been updating very much lately. Mainly because Kaleb gave me the plague a cold. Well three colds so far to be exact. My immune system is pretty weak to begin with, adding in the fact that women have lower immune systems during pregnancy and it makes a scary combo. I feel like I've spent most of the pregnancy so far fighting off colds Kaleb brings home from preschool.

I thought it was about time I made another update, today is a great day for that. It's the first day of my second trimester! This is a really big deal, especially for a high risk pregnancy. The risk of miscarriage drops dramatically once the first trimester is over. Colds aside, I feel good. I didn't have the same nausea I did when I was pregnant with Kaleb. Though I've luckily not puked once with either pregnancy. While pregnant with Kaleb I could barely stomach food during my first trimester, everything seemed gross. This pregnancy is the complete opposite. I want to eat everything in sight. No kidding, we've blown our grocery budget every month since I became pregnant. Probably because I'm eating double breakfast, double lunch and double dinner. Yet, somehow I haven't gained weight. Apparently this baby making is going through calories like crazy.

Though I haven't gained weight, I have magically gained a belly. As of around 8 weeks, suddenly it appeared. That was FAST! Most pants won't close already, makes getting dressed in the morning incredibly annoying. Of course I'm half asleep in the morning and accidentally put back whatever clothes didn't fit, so I'm not doing a good job of updating the closet as I go along. I'll be going through the closet later this month when my sister brings down a good chunk of maternity clothes. I sent her a lot of mine after I had Kaleb (since she was 6 months behind me). Though we're only 2 months apart this time, she doesn't need anything work appropriate so it's still easy for us to share maternity clothes.

I also want to mention (since I get asked at an almost daily basis) we will be finding out the baby's sex in June. We go in for the ultrasound right before Father's Day which is pretty fun timing! We are both still in a little bit of disbelief. How could we get so lucky? Twice! One third of the way through the pregnancy so we're working on getting things adjusted for the transition to two babies.

We've been reading Kaleb a lot of books and trying to get him used to the idea. In fact we've gone double stroller shopping and I told Kaleb that it's for him and the baby. So he sits on one side and says "Kaleb here" and then points to the seat next to him and says "baby here". I think that's a pretty good awareness. Progress! He'll be getting a big boy bed for his birthday later this month so we can transition him back to his room. Yes, he's three and still in our room. He had phases which lasted months where he was in his room, but somehow he always came back. Some night he climbs into our bed after waking from a night terror and continues to sleep with us. It will definitely be interesting to try to get him in his room again.

We're slowly re-arranging things to try to make space for all the things that come with having a newborn. Luckily we kept most of Kaleb's stuff, the bouncer, the jumperoo, the crib, the swing, etc. Originally we thought we barely needed anything for the new baby. Until we really started thinking and planning. Wishful thinking I suppose, the list wasn't too long, but it was longer than we expected.

In the meantime I'm counting down the days until Kaleb's third birthday at the end of this month. I can't believe my little baby is going to be three. Time really does fly! We're continuing tradition with a trip to Disney World for his birthday, as we've done every year. It will be a little bitter sweet as we'll be taking a break from Disney after this trip. Our year passes end at the end of May and we won't be renewing this time. We need to save up money for monster #2. Besides, now that Kaleb is going to be three, he would need his own year pass. Did you know that a year pass for a three year old cost the same as for an adult? Who the hell thought of that idea?! No more child's pricing for annual passes at Disney World. Boo to that. Pin It Now!

April 21, 2013

We still have a long way to go...

One of the great things about Kaleb's transition meeting was that we got to sit down and speak with his speech therapist for a long time. We communicate via notes, evaluations, etc., but our schedules don't allow us to speak face to face very often. She had just finished doing three speech evaluations for Kaleb last week to prepare for the transition meeting.

She did the Preschool Language Scale 5 (PLS=5), the Developmental Profile of Infants and Young Children (DPIYC) and the Goldman Fristoe Test of Articulation (GFTA-2). Below are the results from the evaluations and the information given to us from Kaleb's speech therapist.

As far as the standard check boxes to select for behavior/social skills for his speech language evaluation report, the therapist checked off "distracted", "shy", "cooperative", "reduced joint attention" and "echolalia". Her notes stated that Kaleb continues to be easily distracted and displays reduced joint attention. He responds positively to frequent re-direction. Kaleb has displayed a significant increase with his stereotypical utterances and jargon-like speech. If you've been around Kaleb you know what she means about jargon-like speech. He suddenly sounds like he's speaking a different language, it's completely unintelligible speech. A lot of times it's a lot of repetition like plikoplikopliko.

His articulation is one of his biggest issues when it comes to speech, the evaluation done doesn't give a score lower than less than 2 years old. So that's all we're left with as far as the level of delay. It did however show that he has reduced speech intelligibility at the word, phrase and connected speech level. He has the following articulation errors: distortions, substitutions and lateralizations. As far as phonological process he has final consonant deletions, backing of sounds, cluster reductions and gliding.

As far as oral peripherals he has mild oral hypotonia, decreased lingual range of motion and difficultly puckering and rounding lips. We've been working with him on his weak mouth muscles at home, simple things like smoothies through a thin straw, using whistles and trying to blow bubbles are great exercises to help him.

His evaluation showed an auditory comprehension of a 26 month old, which means he is at a 24% delay. His expressive communication is that of a 20 month old, which means he is at a 41% delay. It can be really discouraging to hear how far behind he is considering how hard everyone involved with Kaleb is trying to help him catch up. Discouraging until we stop to think about just how far along he's come, he really has had some amazing progress. This time last year more than 90% of all of his communication was done via sign language, he knew approximately 10 spoken words. We've come a looooong way!


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April 20, 2013

Transition Meeting

Yesterday we went to Kaleb's transition meeting. A transition meeting is held before a third birthday, because he basically ages out of the program he is currently in (after the end of the school year of course). At three years old he is then able to enter the public school system, normally you enter VPK at a minimum age of 4, but he enters through a preschool program for children with disabilities.

The transition meeting gets a representative from our public school system, his case worker, his teacher and therapist together with us to discuss his options. It was an almost two hour long meeting, but luckily everyone seemed to be on the same page. We've heard a lot of horror stories, so we're grateful to have a great team together who really want to do the best for Kaleb. He's going to be going to a school close to home, though not the home school assigned for our address. He will be going into a reverse mainstream program (which is the same program type he is currently in). Reverse mainstream is a program for children with varying disabilities who can benefit from being with typically developing peers, but need a smaller class setting. This program on average has 10 children with disabilities and 4 role model children.

There was only one other program that was discussed for Kaleb's needs, which was a LEAP program. This is a program specifically for children who are in the autism spectrum whom social skills and language development are the primary focus. This would have been 4 children with autism and 8 typically developing children. I really did like this program and thought it would be a good fit, other than one detail. It's a half day program. We all decided that Kaleb would benefit best from a full day program. Our next big meeting is the I.E.P. meeting which won't be held until summer time.


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April 19, 2013

#kalebmonster you know how we love our board games it was about time kaleb learned one its a hi ho cherry-o kinda night



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